Welcome ancestors and friends. (Bride and groom) are adored that so abounding of you who beggarly so abundant to them are actuality to allotment and absolve this, their alliance day. I acceptable you and absolve you with these words:
Blessed be you who accept appear actuality in adherence to all that is loving, acceptable and sacred.
We absolve you and acceptable you in joy.
May the Source of activity sustain you in life.
May all that is blue-blooded and accurate in the cosmos affect your lives calm and accompany accord to all humankind.
Shehecheyanu
Blessed are you, O God, for giving life, comestible us and bringing us to this blissful time.
Remembering Admired Ones Who Accept Died
I would like to yield this moment to acknowledgment that there are those abutting to (bride and groom) who could not biking to be actuality today, but whose thoughts and blessings are with them; and there are admired ones who are no best actuality in body, but who are actuality in spirit. Let us bethink them now in a moment of silence.
Acknowledging the Helpmate and Groom's Traditions
Out of two altered and audible traditions, they accept appear calm to apprentice the best of what anniversary has to offer, affectionate their differences, and acknowledging that getting calm is far bigger than getting afar from anniversary other. As we absolve this alliance beneath a chuppah (wedding canopy), the Jewish attribute of the new home getting consummated here, we will afterwards ablaze the accord candle, a Christian attribute of two humans acceptable one in marriage.
Priest's Opening Blessing (extemporaneous)
Rabbi's Alliance Blessing
Blessed are you who appear actuality in the name of God.
Serve God with joy, appear into God's attendance with song.
O a lot of awesome, august and adored God, admission Your blessings to the helpmate and groom.
Rabbi's Remarks
Blessing Over the Wine
Rabbi:
Two thoughts are appropriate by this cup of wine. The aboriginal is that wine is a attribute of the acidity we ambition for your life. There will be times if you alcohol from added cups, from absinthian ones; but activity offers befalling to flavor the sweetness. The acquaintance of the achievability of a activity abounding with accurate acceptation is what we toast: the acceptable that is life. The additional is that wine is a attribute of sharing. You accept aggregate abounding years together, and out of this time has developed the adulation which brought you to this day. As you abide to allotment in anniversary other's life, you will, as a attribute of this constant cooperation, allotment this cup of wine.
Blessed are you, O God, Creator of the bake-apple of the vine.
Readings (read by ancestors associates or friends)
I shall betroth thee unto me forever,
Yea, I shall betroth thee unto me in righteousness,
And in admiring amore and in compassion;
And I shall betroth thee unto me in faithfulness.
(Hosea 2;19)
I Corinthians, affiliate 12:31-13:8a:
If I accept all the ability of men (and women) or of angels, but allege afterwards love, I am artlessly a gong booming or a cymbal clashing.
If I accept the allowance of prophecy, compassionate all mysteries and alive everything, and if I accept all acceptance so as to move mountains, but am afterwards love, I accretion nothing.
If I accord abroad all I possess, and if I bear my physique to be burned, but am afterwards love, I accretion nothing. (Because of its clear content, this ballad is generally afar for alliance ceremonies.)
Love is consistently accommodating and kind; it is never anxious nor selfish, it does not yield breach and is not resentful.
Love takes not amusement in added people's sins, but delights in the truth. It is consistently accessible to excuse, to trust, and to abide whatever comes. Adulation does not end.
There are in the end three things that last: Faith, Hope and Love, and the greatest of these is Love.
Priest's Remarks
Exchange of Vows (including the "Declaration of Consent")
Priest:
(Bride/partner) and (Groom/partner), accept you appear actuality advisedly and afterwards anxiety to accord yourselves to anniversary added in marriage?
Response:
We have.
(Bride) and (Groom) back it is your ambition to access into marriage, accompany your appropriate easily and echo afterwards me.
(Groom )/(Bride):
In the name of God, I, (bride/groom) yield you, (bride/groom) to be my wife/husband, to accept and to authority from this day forward, for bigger for worse, for richer for poorer, in amore and in health, to adulation and to cherish, until we are beggared by death. This is my austere vow.
Exchange of Rings
Rabbi:
These rings in their ceaseless accompaniment are tokens of the chain of your love. May their animated actuality be a attribute of the constant assurance and amore that you accompany to one another.
(Groom), as you abode the ring on (Bride's) finger, echo afterwards me:
With this ring, I accompany my activity with yours.
This is my admired and this is my friend.
(Bride), as you abode the ring on (Groom's) finger, echo afterwards me:
With this ring, I accompany my activity with yours.
This is my admired and this is my friend.
Lighting the Accord Candle
Priest:
In the alliance liturgy, candlelight symbolizes the charge of adulation these two humans are declaring today.
Before you you see three appropriate candles. The two abate candles betoken the lives of the helpmate and groom. Until today, both accept let their ablaze flash as individuals in their corresponding communities. Now they accept appear to about affirm their adulation in the new abutment of marriage.
They do not lose their individuality. Yet, in marriage, they are affiliated in so abutting a band that they become one. Now, afterward the profession of their alliance vows, they will ablaze the ample centermost candle from the abate candles to betoken this new reality. In this way they are adage that afterward their ablaze accept to flash calm for anniversary other, for their families, and for the community. [adapted for several altered Christian sources]
From every animal getting there rises a ablaze that alcove beeline to heaven. And if two souls are destined to acquisition one another, their two streams of ablaze breeze calm and a individual brighter ablaze goes alternating from their affiliated being. [Written by the Baal Shem Tov, a acclaimed clergyman who lived centuries ago]
(The Seven Alliance Blessings are generally added here, if a brace wishes to cover them)
Pronouncement
Rabbi:
Your accompany and family, all of us here, rejoice in your beatitude and we adjure that this day marks alone one of abounding added blessings you will allotment in the canicule and years ahead. And now that you accept announced the words and performed the rites that affiliate your lives, we now, by the ability of your adulation and the charge you accept made, acknowledge your alliance to be accurate and binding, and acknowledge you (groom and bride), bedmate and wife.
Benediction
Rabbi and Priest alternate:
May God absolve you and accumulate you.
May God's aspect flash aloft you and be accommodating to you.
May God attending aloft you with favor and admission you peace.
Breaking of the Glass
Rabbi:
We achieve this commemoration with the breaking of the glass. It is a blissful ceremony. There are abounding altered explanations for the breaking of the glass. Today, the airiness of the bottle suggests the blemish of animal relationships. The bottle is torn to assure this alliance with the adumbrated prayer...
May your band of adulation be as difficult to breach as it would be to put calm the pieces of this glass.
After (the groom, or the helpmate and groom) break the glass, I allure anybody to bark the Hebrew words "Mazel Tov," which agency "good luck" and "congratulations."
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